we are building a community of chicagoans that want to date differently.

the meet irl community is open to all on the spectrum of gender & sexual preference and both monogamous and enm folks. because our events are curated, we make sure you are meeting other people that you might be compatible with.

meet irl is based in logan square, chicago, with most events in our local neighborhood and surrounding areas.

to be eligible to join as a member, you must be at least 25 years old, live in chicago, and commit to following our community guidelines, which you can find here.

like our vibe? fill in our registration form here to be invited to future meet irl events.

you can share as little or as much as you like, but please bear in mind that only providing basic information will make it harder for us to introduce you to compatible people.

what happens next?

once you’ve registered, we’ll review your information to make sure you’re a fit for our community - and we’re happy to say that most people who register are. we don’t send confirmation emails after registration - instead, we’ll simply reach out when we’re organizing an event that we think you might like to join us at.

please note, we host 2-4 events each month. we try to cater to different folks within our community as much as possible. you may not receive an invitation straight away, but it doesn’t mean we don’t think you’re wonderful. we appreciate your patience :)

invites are sent via email from hello@meetirlco.com or in instagram DM - follow us save us to your contacts to make sure you won’t miss an invite, and follow us on eventbrite here to be the first to see the what we’re working on.

registered, but no longer interested?

we love to hear that our community are finding love, or even that they’re taking a break from dating to focus on themselves. whatever the reason, just let us know if you no longer want to receive invites, so that we don’t keep bothering you. simply reply to an invite, message us on instagram or email us here to let us know you’re taking a break.